However, many LGBTQ teens have said, in retrospect, that they began to sense something 'different' about themselves early in life, and for gender diverse youth, sometimes as far back as preschool. For many kids, gender identity becomes clear around puberty as they develop gender characteristics and stronger romantic attractions. Children may begin exploring gender and relationships before kindergarten, so 'coming out' and sharing these feelings of being different with others may happen at any time. 'I feel different from other kids.'įeelings of being 'different' emerge throughout childhood, although it may not be clear to the child what the feelings means. Parents of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and questioning (LGBTQ) teens to remember each child is unique and will have their own experiences and feelings along the way. It may be quick and easy for some, or longer and more difficult for others. Gender identity and/or sexual orientation with others. 'Coming out' is a lifelong journey of understanding, acknowledging and sharing one's
